They are never happy if they are not in full control. They can do it with Taiwan, when the Kuomintang went there and took over the island by force after Mao sack them from the mainland. They tried to take over Malaya in 1945 after Japanese surrendered, but failed.
The Malays on the other hand must rise to the occassion and wake up from their political slumber and demand the Chinese to find ways to show they are committed with non-chauvinism behaviour and live with us in peace. They must have realise by now we are very accomodating but not insensitive to rejections.